A fairy tale pocket diary
Affirmations disguised as play.
A gentle way home to yourself.
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The self-care app that meets you where love left you.
Relationships cut the deepest. Romantic, family, friendships — they're where we question our worth, lose our footing, and forget who we were before someone else's opinion mattered. But as we think, so our world shifts. Frog Date sees relationship patterns not as something to survive, but as an initiation — a doorway back to yourself.
Inside you'll find playful tools for healing, self-work, and remembering that you were always the magic. No fixing. No forcing the universe. Just frogs, mirrors, and a gentle way to rise.
Mini-games that feel like fun, work like therapy
5 frogs, 5 patterns you might recognise
The pond is always there when you need it
Collect affirmations. Build your library.
Each frog represents a dating pattern. Not to blame "them", but to gently ask: why do we keep choosing this?
The Ice Prince
Emotionally unavailable. Beautiful. Cold. Your warmth was never meant to thaw frozen hearts.
The Ghoster
Always just out of reach. Vanishing mid-conversation. Stop leaving the light on for ghosts.
The Moonlight Manipulator
Beautiful deception. Rewriting reality. Trust what you saw. Your memory isn't broken.
The Validation Vampire
Craves applause. Feeds on attention. Peace is louder than applause.
The Master of Maybe
Speaks in someday. Lives in ambiguity. Mixed signals are actually a very clear signal.
What if love isn't something you find, but something you become?
The frogs aren't here to help you "get" someone. They're here to help you come home to yourself. To feel good in your own skin. To stop chasing and start being.
Because here's the thing about romantic love: it's a vibe first, a physical manifestation later.
When you feel into feeling good, genuinely good, not performing good, you naturally let go of the outcome. And that's when the magic actually works.
The pond doesn't chase the moon's reflection. It just stays still, and the light finds it.
FrogDate is about dating.
But the affirmations? They're about every relationship you've ever had.
"You stayed with yourself."
That's your mother's kitchen table.
"Nothing to prove."
That's the friend who keeps score.
"I don't need the clapping."
That's anyone who made you perform for love.
The frogs show you dating patterns. The affirmations show you yourself.
The frog was never the problem. The frog was the doorway.
The mirror in the fairy tale was never about the reflection. It was about the voice. What you say to yourself when no one's listening.
Frog Date helps you collect affirmations that actually land. Words you can say out loud. Words that rewire the story you keep telling yourself.
Because once you change the voice in the mirror, everything else starts to shift. Something loving. And the world rearranges itself around that.
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Why frogs?
Because transformation likes to travel in disguise.
Because love stories need thresholds.
Because magic works better when it's allowed to be fun.
Also, frogs are excellent companions
for anyone brave enough to leap before certainty arrives.
Welcome to the game.
Carl Jung understood that the stories you feel drawn to are not random, but reflections of deeper archetypal patterns already alive within you, quietly shaping the path you walk and the realities you recognise as your own.
Jung understood that fairy tales are the language of the unconscious mind. The frogs, the mirrors, the enchanted castles — they aren't decoration. They're archetypes. Patterns that repeat across every culture and every relationship. Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.
Neurolinguistic programming shows us that the conscious mind resists direct instruction — but metaphor slips past. "You have avoidant attachment patterns" triggers resistance. "You keep kissing the Ice Prince" lands. Your brain processes story differently from advice. It lowers the drawbridge.
You don't choose the same type because you're broken. You choose them because your brain is efficient — it runs what it knows. Relationship patterns are neural habits, not character flaws. You can't think your way out of a loop. But you can interrupt it — and NLP has been doing exactly that for decades.
In NLP, a pattern interrupt breaks the unconscious loop before it completes. That's what the games do. Short, playful, absorbing — your brain can't run the old programme and play at the same time. The loop breaks while you're not thinking about it. Jung called play the royal road to the unconscious. We just gave it frogs.
NLP calls it reframing. Jung called it active imagination. The mirror in the fairy tale is the voice you use when no one's listening. Every time you repeat a new phrase, you weaken the old neural pathway and strengthen a new one. The story you tell yourself is the story you live. Change the words, change the pattern.
No long exercises. No journals. Just short moments while you wait for the bus. Frequent, brief exposure rewires faster than marathon sessions. Your unconscious doesn't need you to understand what's happening. It just needs repetition, play, and a story it can't resist.
The fairy tale is the delivery system. Jung saw the pattern. NLP found the interrupt.
The doors have opened.
Melancholia is the threshold. The sacred passage between who you were and who you are becoming. Here, in the chrysalis of loneliness, in the dark waters of sadness, transformation does its hidden work. The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek. And it is always in the darkness that the light finds us.
Plant intentions. Water them with attention. Watch them grow into something real. Your dreams deserve more than a vision board. They deserve roots.
Your fairy tale pocket diary is waiting.
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